Jealousy is one of the
most dangerous emotions for human mind.
"The grass is
always greener on the other side" or "Turning green with envy"
are revealed the jealousy. Jealousy is one of the most dangerous emotions we
can experience. Look around ourselves, now day, we can feel this emotion from
our friends, families, teachers or some stars. However, most of people do not
regard jealousy is dangerous. Therefore, here is an example to show you the dangerous
of jealousy. There is a man continuously proposing to a woman. But he makes her
cloying. So, she deliberately makes a fake boyfriend to let him give up her.
However, this behavior makes the man jealousy. Finally, he cannot control his
feeling to kill his lover and even her mother at her house. After my story, I
want to ask you a question, "How do you react when you feel
jealousy?" Today, I insist jealousy is one of the most dangerous emotions
for human mind to tell you about its dangerous.
There are most of people confused with the meaning of words which are "envy" and "jealousy", but these words have different meaning. I define them at first. When people feel envy, it is because they want the possessions or qualities of another’. Briefly, envy wants to wish we had something that another person has. On the other hand, jealousy believes that something that somehow belongs to them is been given to somebody else. Briefly, jealousy revealed a fear of losing something we have to another person. However, it is difficult to understand if I only define them in the words. Here are some examples to help you to understand easily. If the men feel resentment because they do not have a beautiful wife like their friend, then this would be envy. While if they that their own wife was having an affair with their friend, then this would be jealousy. Are you surely recognizing about the differences between the "envy" and "jealousy"?
There are most of people confused with the meaning of words which are "envy" and "jealousy", but these words have different meaning. I define them at first. When people feel envy, it is because they want the possessions or qualities of another’. Briefly, envy wants to wish we had something that another person has. On the other hand, jealousy believes that something that somehow belongs to them is been given to somebody else. Briefly, jealousy revealed a fear of losing something we have to another person. However, it is difficult to understand if I only define them in the words. Here are some examples to help you to understand easily. If the men feel resentment because they do not have a beautiful wife like their friend, then this would be envy. While if they that their own wife was having an affair with their friend, then this would be jealousy. Are you surely recognizing about the differences between the "envy" and "jealousy"?
After these, you will be wonder why people feel jealousy.
Or is it really dangerous for us? Feeling jealousy has many reasons. Typically,
low self esteem, fear of being alone, past traumas and bad experiences and mental
health problems, all of these factors can raise the jealousy. Then, jealousy is
how dangerous? According to finding of study of David M. Buss, there are 5,000
people in this study. There are 84% of women and 91% of men admitted that they
imaged the murder at least one. Moreover, now day, there are more and more
people kill another due to jealousy.
Jealousy is the most dangerous emotion for human mind. Can you feel that? Then, I will tell you more detail about them.
Jealousy is the most dangerous emotion for human mind. Can you feel that? Then, I will tell you more detail about them.
First,
jealousy will hurt people who are ours and the others. Then, we are talking
about us at first. When you watch the Korean drama, some kinds of romantic
movies and love story books, can you find some common? Yes! All of them reveal the
emotion of jealousy. Examplarily, at the stories, there would have the love
triangle. For example, if there is a pretty girl, then there would have two or
more than two boys fall in love. When this girl loves a boy who loves her, then,
the others will feel jealousy. We also can see this happening at the drama:
Lately, at the most popular Korea drama "Qi Empress", we can find that at drama there are all of people feel jealousy to others. Like, the king of Yuan Dynasty is jealousy the king of Goryeo because the main girl character loves him. We can know he reveal this emotion for behaviors. However, the queen of Yuan Dynasty revealed her emotion by the behavior of killing through an assassination.
Like this example, we can know that they reveal their emotions through some actions such as hurting other or falling someone into dangerous. I refer the dangerous of jealousy that was because when this emotion get to abnormal and pathological levels that they can become dangerous not only to a friendship or relationship, but also life itself. Psychologist Shauna Spriner (Ph.D.) says that jealousy is destructive emotion comes from deep rooted anxiety and lack of self esteem. I insist that jealousy hurts others and us. Psychologists agree my opinion. Moreover, I think people feel jealousy is due to comparing me with others. If I finish some works through all my efforts, I would be happy to finish them. However, if I compare it with others, I will think that "his result is better than me. I am poor at all of them, I am fool." Gradually, those who compare themselves with others will feel despondency, even those will choose suicide.
Second, we accept the facts to distort due to jealousy. People usually only hear and watch someone's the other side, for example, when students talk about a very pretty super star. Then, you will say that her face is not the nature, she did a plastic surgery. When you faced with a happening that makes you to feel jealousy, you will deny it as you can. Here is an interesting story let you understanding more easily:
There is one sweet potato and one potato. Walking around the roads, they see a beautiful glutinous rice cake. Potato says, "Glutinous rice cake is very pretty. Look, her face is so fluffy and white!" However, the sweet potato think of herself and jealousy her, says "She is not pretty!" Hearing the chatter, glutinous rice cake is shy and avoiding the space. At that time, sweet potato see some white powder falls off from glutinous rice cake's body and says, "Look, that is making up!"
Lately, at the most popular Korea drama "Qi Empress", we can find that at drama there are all of people feel jealousy to others. Like, the king of Yuan Dynasty is jealousy the king of Goryeo because the main girl character loves him. We can know he reveal this emotion for behaviors. However, the queen of Yuan Dynasty revealed her emotion by the behavior of killing through an assassination.
Like this example, we can know that they reveal their emotions through some actions such as hurting other or falling someone into dangerous. I refer the dangerous of jealousy that was because when this emotion get to abnormal and pathological levels that they can become dangerous not only to a friendship or relationship, but also life itself. Psychologist Shauna Spriner (Ph.D.) says that jealousy is destructive emotion comes from deep rooted anxiety and lack of self esteem. I insist that jealousy hurts others and us. Psychologists agree my opinion. Moreover, I think people feel jealousy is due to comparing me with others. If I finish some works through all my efforts, I would be happy to finish them. However, if I compare it with others, I will think that "his result is better than me. I am poor at all of them, I am fool." Gradually, those who compare themselves with others will feel despondency, even those will choose suicide.
Second, we accept the facts to distort due to jealousy. People usually only hear and watch someone's the other side, for example, when students talk about a very pretty super star. Then, you will say that her face is not the nature, she did a plastic surgery. When you faced with a happening that makes you to feel jealousy, you will deny it as you can. Here is an interesting story let you understanding more easily:
There is one sweet potato and one potato. Walking around the roads, they see a beautiful glutinous rice cake. Potato says, "Glutinous rice cake is very pretty. Look, her face is so fluffy and white!" However, the sweet potato think of herself and jealousy her, says "She is not pretty!" Hearing the chatter, glutinous rice cake is shy and avoiding the space. At that time, sweet potato see some white powder falls off from glutinous rice cake's body and says, "Look, that is making up!"
How about this story? Is it interesting? Like this, the
degree of jealousy from chatting between friends we can say it is a joke.
However, If you were denying the facts that are about the Council or the
Government, how would be happen? I can certainly it will make us shameful due
to disorder. Denying the facts will make many problems that are our personal
relationships or any political problems, even the results we cannot image.
Therefore, we should control our emotion to prevent these problems.
Finally, jealousy will raise social confusion. Most of
our bad emotions are coming from jealousy. For instance, upset, angry, sadness,
despair, we can feel them through jealousy. However, we cannot believe that the
first of child in the world is a murder in the Bible. He is jealous of his only
brother to make this result. Here is a story about them:
Temptation of Adam and Eve have two sons, they are Cain
and Abel. Cain is a farmer and Abel is a shepherd boy. Both of them perform
ancestral rites to God using their labor result. However, the God only accept
Abel's one. That is because Cain only performs perfunctory, there is not any
elaboration. But Cain cannot know his mistake, he is jealousy his brother.
Finally, he kills his own brother, just due to jealousy.
Moreover, in the reality,
there are also a lot of people killing others just due to jealousy like Cain.
We need to recognize our mistakes. Thus, when we face with jealousy, first of
all, it is not hurting or complaining others, it needs to control your mind and
contemplates yourself first. Then, it can reduce some confusion for our society
and country.
However, the opponents argue that jealousy is not one of
the most dangerous emotions for human mind. It helps us to make a motive for
us, it means jealousy is our power. I concede their arguments. Sometimes we get
some motivations from jealousy. For example, there is a boy who has an older
brother. When he saw his brother read books, the little boy also followed him
to read book. This behavior is not only because of his curiosity, but also he
is jealous of his older brother because the older brother can get his mothers'
compliment. However, according to these three opinions, I cannot see better this
little brothers’ behavior. Jealousy is very dangerous, it also can build up.
Moreover, this younger brothers' jealousy also can reveal to different types.
For example, when the younger boy saw his brother takes compliments from his
mother. He will reveal his jealousy through tearing off his brother's books.
For this reason, sometimes I concede the opponents' arguments, but most of
times I regard the jealousy is one of the dangerous emotion for human mind.
In briefly, jealousy damages the mind and body of human,
denies the facts and causes some problems. Therefore, I insist the jealousy is one
of the most dangerous emotions for human mind. Do not have any solutions to resolve
this emotion? Here are some tips for you. When you experience jealousy, it means
you are not trust you, you don't have any powerful confidence. To overcome it,
you need to take some mind that you are every precious in the world and you are
very valuable. If you cannot overcome yet, then how about talking with your
friends?
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