Topic: Is "Jealousy" the most dangerous emotion for human mind?
All of human are the animals that have ability of jealousy. This strange emotion is revealed by some adages which are "The grass is always greener on the other side" and "Turning green with envy". Look around ourselves, now day, we can feel this emotion from our friends, families, teachers or some stars and so on. However, most of people have no regard to the dangerous of jealousy. They usually think of the fight and murder due to jealousy is only happening between the animals. However, there is an example to show us people's jealousy is also very dangerous. There is a boy continuously prose to a girl. But he makes her cloying. So, she deliberately makes a fake boyfriends to letting him give up her, However, this behavior makes the boy jealousy. Finally, he cannot control himself to kill this girl and her mother at her house. After my story, I will ask you a question, "How do you react when you feel jealousy?" Today, I will insist "jealousy is the most dangerous emotion for human mind." to tell you about it.
Before I insist my arguments I tell you more detail about jealousy. Most of people did not recognize the different between the words of "envy" and "jealousy". I explain them with some interesting examples. First, envy requires two parties, like you and that neighbor, when you want her new car and you wish you were the one riding around with the top down. Second, jealousy requires three parties, like you, your neighbor, and your husband, when not only do you wish you had that cool car, but you're worried your husband is going to ride off into the sunset in it without you. Moreover, jealousy is a innate emotion. You try to control it, but it is very difficult. And like the example of the introduction, jealousy is very dangerous. Thus, if we blind in jealousy no time to care ourselves. Finally, we will work on the suicide road.
According to the introduction and narration we can know one fact that jealousy is a dangerous emotion. There are three reasons why I insist jealousy is the most dangerous emotion for human mind.
Like this example, there is not usually killing others. The king is revealed his jealousy through his emotion and behaviors. In contrast, the queen is revealed her jealousy through murder others. For this examples, we can know at the same situation and context, people show different reaction. Second, jealousy also can hurt myself. When I continuously compare myself with others, If I finish it through all of my efforts, I also think about "His result is better than me. I am poor at all of them, I am fool." Gradually, those who compare themselves with others will feel despondency, even those will choose suicide.
Second, we accept the facts to distort due to jealousy. People usually hear and see someone's other sides, such as when the students talk about a very pretty star. Then, you will say that her face is not a nature, she did a plastic surgery. Like this, you will deny the fact. This is also a funny story about denying the fact.
There is one sweet potato and one potato. Walking around the roads,
they see a beautiful glutinous rice cake. Potato says, " Glutinous rice
cake is very pretty. Look, her face is so fluffy and white!" However, the
sweet potato think of herself and jealousy her, says "She is not pretty!"
Hearing the chatter, glutinous rice cake is shy and avoiding the space.
At that time, sweet potato see some white powder fall out from glutinous
rice cake's body and says, "Look, that is making up!"
For this example, we can know one fact. When people jealousy others, they usually distort the facts. This story is only a light topic, however, when we come into our personal relationships or political problems, the result we cannot image.
Finally, jealousy will raise social confusion. Most of our bad emotions are coming from jealousy. For instance, upset, angry, sadness, despair and so on, we can feel them through jealousy. However, we cannot believe that the first of child in the world is a murder.(in the Bible) He also jealousy his only brother to make this result. Here are the story about them.
Temptation of Adam and Eve have two suns, they are Cain and Abel.
Cain is a farmer and Abel is a shepherd boy. Both of them perform
ancestral rites to God using their labor result. However, the God only
accept Abel's one. That is because Cain only perform perfunctory,
there is not any elaboration. But Cain cannot know his mistake, he is
jealousy his brother. Finally, he kills his own brother, just due to jealousy.
Moreover, in the reality, there are also a lot of people killing others just due to jealousy, like Cain. We need to recognize our mistakes, thus, when we face with jealousy, first of all, it is not hurt or complain to others, it need to control your mind and contemplate yourself first. Then, it will not make any confusion for our society and country.
First, jealousy will hurt people. In detail, we can distinguish the people that are two types of them. They are myself and the others. First, jealousy hurt the others. When we watch the Korean drama or some kinds of movies and books. The characters also are jealousy the other side. There are typical example about jealousy in the Korean drama:
Lately, at the most popular Korean drama "Qi Empress", we watch that
in drama all of people are jealousy of others. For example, the king of
Yuan Dynasty is jealousy the king of Goryeo. That was because of the
one woman.We can find his feeling from his eyes and his behaviors.In
addiction, because the deficiency of loving, the queen of Yuan Dynasty
tries to kill her through an assassination.
in drama all of people are jealousy of others. For example, the king of
Yuan Dynasty is jealousy the king of Goryeo. That was because of the
one woman.We can find his feeling from his eyes and his behaviors.In
addiction, because the deficiency of loving, the queen of Yuan Dynasty
tries to kill her through an assassination.
Like this example, there is not usually killing others. The king is revealed his jealousy through his emotion and behaviors. In contrast, the queen is revealed her jealousy through murder others. For this examples, we can know at the same situation and context, people show different reaction. Second, jealousy also can hurt myself. When I continuously compare myself with others, If I finish it through all of my efforts, I also think about "His result is better than me. I am poor at all of them, I am fool." Gradually, those who compare themselves with others will feel despondency, even those will choose suicide.
Second, we accept the facts to distort due to jealousy. People usually hear and see someone's other sides, such as when the students talk about a very pretty star. Then, you will say that her face is not a nature, she did a plastic surgery. Like this, you will deny the fact. This is also a funny story about denying the fact.
There is one sweet potato and one potato. Walking around the roads,
they see a beautiful glutinous rice cake. Potato says, " Glutinous rice
cake is very pretty. Look, her face is so fluffy and white!" However, the
sweet potato think of herself and jealousy her, says "She is not pretty!"
Hearing the chatter, glutinous rice cake is shy and avoiding the space.
At that time, sweet potato see some white powder fall out from glutinous
rice cake's body and says, "Look, that is making up!"
For this example, we can know one fact. When people jealousy others, they usually distort the facts. This story is only a light topic, however, when we come into our personal relationships or political problems, the result we cannot image.
Finally, jealousy will raise social confusion. Most of our bad emotions are coming from jealousy. For instance, upset, angry, sadness, despair and so on, we can feel them through jealousy. However, we cannot believe that the first of child in the world is a murder.(in the Bible) He also jealousy his only brother to make this result. Here are the story about them.
Temptation of Adam and Eve have two suns, they are Cain and Abel.
Cain is a farmer and Abel is a shepherd boy. Both of them perform
ancestral rites to God using their labor result. However, the God only
accept Abel's one. That is because Cain only perform perfunctory,
there is not any elaboration. But Cain cannot know his mistake, he is
jealousy his brother. Finally, he kills his own brother, just due to jealousy.
Moreover, in the reality, there are also a lot of people killing others just due to jealousy, like Cain. We need to recognize our mistakes, thus, when we face with jealousy, first of all, it is not hurt or complain to others, it need to control your mind and contemplate yourself first. Then, it will not make any confusion for our society and country.
However, the opponents will argue that jealousy is not the most dangerous emotion for human mind, it will help us to have a motive for our behaviors, it means jealousy is our power. I concede their arguments. Because sometimes we get some motivation from jealousy. For example, there is a boy who have an older brother. When he saw his brother read books, the little boy also followed him to read book. This behavior is not only because of his curiosity, but also he jealousy his older brother due to his mothers' compliment. However, like these three opinions, I will not look best these brothers behaviors. The emotion, jealousy, is very dangerous, it also can build up. Moreover, this younger brothers' jealousy also can reveal to different types. For example, when the younger boy saw his brother make compliment from his mother. He will reveal his jealousy like tearing off his brother's books. For this reasons, sometimes I concede the opponents' arguments, but like this example, most of times show us the jealousy is the dangerous emotion.
In brief, jealousy damages the mind and body of human, denies the facts and causes some problems. Therefore, I insist the jealousy is the most dangerous emotion for human mind. Then, there are not any solutions to solve this emotion? There some tips for you. When you experience jealousy, it means you are not trust yourself, you don't have any powerful confidence. To overcome it, you need to take some mind that you are every precious in the world and you are very valuable. If you cannot overcome yet, then how about talking with your friends? However, you also need to remember the dangerous of jealousy.
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